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PRIORITIZING PLEASURE, PASSION AND PLAY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND YOUR LIVES!!!

Take a Breath-You Are Seen, You are Valued,         You Are Not Alone.

 

In these times of injustice, cruelty, and relentless attacks on our rights and dignity, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, exhausted and terrified for humanity, our friends, our families and ourselves. The trauma this administration has caused from racism, from attacks on gender identity, from discrimination against immigrants, or from the any of the innumerable ways oppression and hatred manifests-please know that your pain is valid, your experiences matter and you do not have to carry them alone.

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We want to hold space for you. Whether you need a listening ear, a safe place to breathe and be who you are, or just a reminder that there are people who care deeply about you and value your right to be authentically you. We honor your right to be in this country, contributing to creating a rich, diverse nation. You deserve care, safety and joy. You deserve to exist fully as yourself, without fear or shame.

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Let’s continue to lift each other up, nurture one another, and build a world where compassion and justice prevail. If you need support, please reach out. You are so valued. You belong.

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We are committed to action to denounce the illegal and unjust practices that are running rampart through our government. Let no one feel terrorized.

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With care and solidarity,

K.I.S Counseling💋

Would you like to participate in sex study?? Look below to see if you qualify!  

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Researchers at Modern Sex Therapy Institutes are interested in investigating the experiences of physical pain among female bottoms engaged in impact play in BDSM community dungeon play spaces versus private play settings. Interviews will be conducted with women who meet the eligibility requirements listed below. This research is being completed by the principal investigator as partial fulfillment of the requirements for the doctoral degree at Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. This study has been approved by an Institutional Review Board to ensure the safety and welfare of participants.

Criteria for participation:

 

  • 18 years or older Cisgender female or trans female on hormone therapy

  • Engage in impact play in BOTH private and in BDSM dungeon play spaces as a bottom

  • Engaged in these experiences within the last 6 months

  • English speaking and understanding.

  • No history of diagnosed chronic pain disorder

  • No history of diagnosed dissociative disorder, borderline personality disorder, PTSD or those who have had an episode of psychosis within the past two years

  • No use of drugs or alcohol during impact play

  • The initial screening survey is expected to take less than three minutes to complete.

  • The in-depth interviews will take place on Zoom and are expected to be 60-90 minutes with a brief 30-45 minute follow up scheduled 1-2 week after the initial one.

  • There is no compensation for this study.

  • Interested participants should complete the screening survey:

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https://qualtricsxmkfkz28sn5.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_08tHvw0kkbloRKK

 

If you have any questions, please contact principal investigator, Kandee Love, at kandeelove@proton.me.

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